I Just Don't Get It...

Women are almost always called clingy, crazy, suckers for love and other things of the same nature by Men. What I don't get is why we are labelled that way when I've noticed that it's due to men and their lies to get us.

Case in point; he opens with a great line and gets your information...you connect rather instantly and have a few amazing moments together. Conversations are incredible. So many things in common. He begins to spew out all these lines and comments that would make any woman fall.

Things seem to be going rather well, then it all begins...too busy, too tired, doesn't communicate as much. As an adult, you maintain faith and realize that sometimes people really are just that busy. Knowing all that's on his plate and how he tells you certain things to keep you interested, you wait and have faith.

Finally, after some unwarranted waiting, he tells you he will finally have time to see you and how he's so excited to see you. He spends days telling you how crazy you make him and how bad he wants you. You make plans and are left waiting...not even a word to let you know he won't be coming.

Do you get mad? Do you get worried? Do you attempt to contact him?

It isn't the first time you're left waiting and, most likely, won't be the last. Do you forget him and move on? Do you give that last chance because you see his worth? One thing is certain; you spend a lot of time asking yourself why. Why does he say these things if he doesn't mean them? Why doesn't he just tell you he isn't interested? Why does he show so much interest only to leave you waiting?

At this point it is rather clear that the final conversation must occur. When a man wants you and is truly interested, he will move heaven and earth to be around you. To show you he cares he will do it all with no objection. If you see that the focus isn't there and nothing has changed, then you stop caring.

A woman can only do so much. At a certain point you must value your self worth and realize that he just isn't good enough or just doesn't see your worth like you see his.

I, myself will always wear my heart on my sleeve. I don't live afraid of love and take the chance to be happy when I feel it has come around. I may look like a fool most of the time, but I won't live in a world where I'm afraid to love because of another man who didn't see my worth.

Love will come back into my life when it's truly time...It's that simple...