It seems there is an epidemic upon us. Love has become so easily attainable and so easily forgotten. Since when did the "honeymoon phase" of a relationship equal a long and everlasting love? It sickens me how easily people forget about each other to be with someone new. Juggling people like toys. Enjoying a person's company is great. That connection you get easily with a new person. The phone conversations, the dates, waking up thinking of that exciting emotion. That is not love. It is liking someone. You cannot foresee a life long connection after a few weeks, even months.
I can definitely understand how great the new feeling is, one person annoys you so someone new grasps your attention, you must keep in mind that your true love annoys you and gets under your skin because they know you. They know every little thing that bothers you. It's why love is so hard to maintain, the person that you allow into your heart fully will always be the one person that can drive you from love to hate in 2.4 seconds. Love can be so ugly, it can be painful, it can drive you insane, but it is such an amazing force that everything else can be forgotten almost immediately.
How can people enjoy going from person to person just to get away from who they really love. Being afraid to be alone is no reason to be with everyone. Life is a balance, if you don't have any bad moments how are you supposed to cherish the good moments? No relationship is perfect. No relationship is free of fights. Any two people that have been together for a very long time will tell you that they are happy but it was blood, sweat and tears to get there. Love is worth all the pain.
Nothing worthwhile is easy. Love is the only shocking act left on this planet. Treat it properly and it will reward you greatly!
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